IN MY OPINION: BAKLA AT TOMBOY

note: The sole purpose of this post is to express my opinion on a certain topic about the so-called third sex. If this entry somewhat offended you please do message me immediately at miisz_angel@yahoo.com. I know some of you will not agree because we have different points-of-view then you can repost this in your own blog so that you can express your own opinion on this matter and I'll respect whatever opinion you will have.



Three nights ago while forcing myself to sleep I was listening to the radio which is tuned in dzmm lovelines. Instead of going to sleep I become interested on their topic about gays & tomboys. Of course what's a topic without a guideline question right? The quideline questions were: 1. Sa tingin mo paano nagigin bading o tomboy ang isang tao? Meron bang kinalaman ang genes at paligid na ginagalawan niya? and 2. Pwede bang maging isang mabuting magulang ang bading o tomboy kung magkakaron man sila nang sarili nilang pamilya?.

in my opinion, both genetic factor and environment contributes on the sexual preference of one person.

In genetic factor, although the ratio of having a gay or tomboy born child is 1:4, I still believe that it contributes on what sexual preference a person will have. Recalling our biology class during our sophomore years in high school, there is a certain topic about chromosomes in which we can foretell or determine the sex or gender of the yet unborn baby. It is seriously hard for me to explain my thoughts further because genetic factor needs a lot of scientific explanations but I guess you already know what I am trying to say.

You may say that what if that person, as a kid, is only attached on his feminine or her masculine side because of course as a kid they may not know anything yet about being a gay or a tomboy. well, that's where the environmental factor comes in.

In environmental factor, kids will grown old and they will be able to think and somewhat decide for their own, if a certain kid is exposed or influenced by the people around them they will obtain the femininity or masculinity that they have.

So how will the kids be exposed or influnced at a young age? There are sometimes family having 4 child which consist of 3 girls and a boy, if the family will not let the boy experience the life of being one tendency is that he will become attached to his feminine side and later on feels like being one too. There are also times that if a kid, especially a girl, is surrounded by tomboys tendency is that she may adopt and be one herself.



Can gays and tomboys be a good parents? Well the answer is it depends, because reality check, third sex is still not accepted by some people. If the soon to be parents from the thrid sex is not treated the way he or she should be treated then definitely they will not to good on parenting issues. But, if that person although not treated the way he or she should be treated but felt that there is this one person that can understand and feel them then I can say definitely say that they can be a good parents.

In general, I think they can be great on the parenting issues because they will not let any same situation happen to their own child. Having a lot of friends from the so-called third sex, I know that they are full of love, care, and respect for others.